Showing posts with label Help. Show all posts
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Monday, December 29, 2014

My Father and Shree Chakravarti Rajagopalachari -- Brothers not on Blood but Actions

It took me a chance reading this morning to find out that my father shares his birthday with Shree Chakravarti Rajagopalachari, popularly called Rajaji. A very nice feeling indeed. The purist will remind me that a king and a beggar may be born on the same day but their life is often as apart in relationship as day and night. Yet for me the signs are really soothing. Rajaji was the last Governer-General of India and also the last highly powerful, highly learned human being from the pre-1947 India who was unbelievably humble. My father has no such prominence or clout but he is a man of equally unflinching truth, devotion, hard work, determination, faithfulness and vision. If ever the glory and might of a father gains from the actions of his son, then I do not want to fail him.

Rajaji lost his entire family, wife, 3 daughters, one as young as 3, and 2 sons-in-law. K.P. Kesava Menon, Chief Editor of Mathrubhumi observed, "Sri Rajagopalachari is rarely moved by emotion". If you read his poem, Kurai Onrum Illai, in Tamil, or listen to its very touching rendition by MS Subbulakhsmi jee, you can get the lasting impression for yourself. The poem remembers Lord Krishna and reiterates that he has no regrets about losing his family. God has rightfully taken away what he bestowed on him. What a purity and simplicity of thoughts!!!

My father has been asked several times to come out for help in the middle of the night or at the busy business hours of the day. These were close relatives, dear friends and strangers alike. And he never declined. Many a times these visits resulted in losses - personal, financial and emotional. He never pushed anybody beyond a limit to recover the damages. His face always wore a smile, his hands always greeted in respect and his actions always desired to do something good for them. I have never seen or heard him complaining about pain, suffering or betrayal to the Almighty. He simply sits in meditation as if to reiterate the fact that it is all his to take away.

Rajaji was a prolific writer. He had written on varied subjects and his writings reveal depth and scholarship. His important and valuable publications include : Ramayana, Mahabharata, Upanishads and Bhaja Govindam in English language. Mahabharata and Ramayana are published in many editions and translated into many Indian and foreign languages. Rajaji was awarded by the Sahitya Akademi for his Tamil book on Ramayana which went on to be translated in several other languages. Originally published in 1951, it remains one of the most authoritative explanation of morals and ideas behind Karma & Dharma.

My father is a very special scholar in his own right. He has deep understanding of Updanishads, Vedas, Ramayana, Gita, Mahabaharat and other Hindu scriptures. He translates texts from these sacred books into simple Hindi regularly, explaining in lucid terms the good and bad of each hymn/sermon. He also visits online and offline forums, gatherings and conferences and commands learned audience. He had traveled across the world under the umbrella of various organizations spreading the good preachings of Sanaatana Dharma. My exposure to good learning began as early as 4 when I learnt and recited Gayatri Mantra by heart. And to this date all good moral and cultural traits that I possess are 100% the meaningful and example-based teaching of my father.

Another inspiring similarity between my two legends is there love and efforts for Hindi. Rajaji had a strong belief in the usefulness of Hindi for the all Indians.

I consider the importance of Hindi for the South Indians because there is no getting away from it. If there is any Indian language which can replace English throughout the length and breadth of country, it is Hindi. A majority of people understand it.

He was the first politician to introduce Hindi in Tamilnadu schools in 1952 in the capacity of Chief Minister of Madras. My father was there in Chennai during the massive anti-Hindi unrest in 1967. He talked to people, made them understand the all round benefits of learning Hindi. He also categorically proved that the entire business in Madras could be conducted in Hindi if the local party stands to gain from the trade. The protests were purely political in nature. My father has been a hard-working part-time journalist for more than 30 years and his contribution in advancing quality and adoption of Hindi via Hindi journalism is well-known in Media fraternity.

I know some of you will accuse me of bragging. I assure all my readers that this is a very true comparison, done with the intention of celebrating the most commonly shared qualities among people we can admire. The most lasting influences come from folks who are closest to us. This piece is my worship to my father who is the most simple and yet powerful motivation I can get free of cost. Rajaji must have inspired my father and other in his generation and idiots like me will do themselves a world of good if we can identify and absorb such brilliant, common human values.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

How can GOD help?


QUIT WORRYING: Life has dealt you a blow and all you do is sit and worry. Have you forgotten that I am here to take all your burdens and carry them for you? Or do you just enjoy fretting over every little thing that comes your way?

PUT IT ON THE LIST: Something needs to be done or taken care of. Put it on the list. No, not YOUR list. Put it on MY to-do-list. Let ME be the one to take care of the problem. I can't help you until you turn it over to Me. And although My to-do-list is long, I am after all... God. I can take care of anything you put into My hands. In fact, if the truth were ever really known, I take care of a lot of things for you that you never even realize.

TRUST ME: Once you've given your burdens to Me, quit trying to take them back. Trust in Me. Have the faith that I will take care of all your needs, your problems and your trials. Problems with the kids? Put them on My list. Problem with finances? Put it on My list. Problems with your emotional roller coaster? For My sake, put it on My list. I want to help you. All you have to do is ask.

LEAVE IT ALONE: Don't wake up one morning and say, "Well, I'm feeling much stronger now, I think I can handle it from here." Why do you think you are feeling stronger now? It's simple. You gave Me your burdens and I'm taking care of them. I also renew your strength and cover you in my peace. Don't you know that if I give you these problems back, you will be right back where you started? Leave them with Me and forget about them. Just let Me do my job.

TALK TO ME: I want you to forget a lot of things. Forget what was making you crazy. Forget the worry and the fretting because you know I'm in control. But there's one thing I pray you never forget. Please, don't forget to talk to Me - OFTEN! I love YOU! I want to hear your voice. I want you to include Me in on the things going on in your life. I want to hear you talk about your friends and family. Prayer is simply you having a conversation with Me. I want to be your dearest friend.

HAVE FAITH: I see a lot of things from up here that you can't see from where you are. Have faith in Me that I know what I'm doing. Trust Me; you wouldn't want the view from My eyes. I will continue to care for you, watch over you, and meet your needs. You only have to trust Me. Although I have a much bigger task than you, it seems as if you have so much trouble just doing your simple part. How hard can trust be?

SHARE: You were taught to share when you were only two years old. When did you forget? That rule still applies. Share with those who are less fortunate than you. Share your joy with those who need encouragement. Share your laughter with those who haven't heard any in such a long time. Share your tears with those who have forgotten how to cry. Share your faith with those who have none.

BE PATIENT: I managed to fix it so in just one lifetime you could have so many diverse experiences. You grow from a child to an adult, have children, change jobs many times, learn many trades, travel to so many places, meet thousands of people, and experience so much. How can you be so impatient then when it takes Me a little longer than you expect to handle something on My to-do-list? Trust in My timing, for My timing is perfect. Just because I created the entire universe in only six days, everyone thinks I should always rush, rush, rush.

BE KIND: Be kind to others, for I love them just as much as I love you. They may not dress like you, or talk like you, or live the same way you do, but I still love you all. Please try to get along, for My sake. I created each of you different in some way. It would be too boring if you were all identical. Please, know I love each of your differences.

-    Shree Biju Jacob
               Senior Marketing Professional, FMCG